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October Wedding Attire Ideas for Men | A Unique Guide to a Unique Look!

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October weddings may not be for everyone - after all, it can get pretty cold in some states this time of year. However, there are plenty of guys who have been waiting for the chilly weather to arrive. 

October is an excellent month for fun and festive events, such as Halloween and fall-themed parties. It is also an excellent time for a wedding. With a gorgeous palette of oranges, yellows, and reds as far as the eye can see, an October wedding can be a celebration of color, unlike in any other season. Couples can take advantage of this beautiful backdrop by choosing orange and brown wedding colors, but how do you dress for this fall event?

The first step is to consider what kind of October wedding you'll be attending. Will it be a formal affair with dark colors and matching suits? Or will the bride and groom prefer something more casual and in line with the season?

If you've received an invitation to an October wedding, keep reading for some helpful advice for ideal male guests' attire options. 


Men's Fashion Trends in the Fall

When it comes to traditional menswear, everything seems to be more prominent in the summer. Men are expected to wear their boat shoes with no socks, linen shirts without undershirts, and shorts that are a little too short. However, things change when the weather gets colder. It's time to go back to basics with classic looks that will keep you warm all year long.

Fall menswear includes three primary colors; reds, browns, and navies. You can't go wrong if you choose to wear a shirt with any of these colors. Instead of opting for those bright red pants that everyone wore for Halloween last year, go for some deep burgundy chinos instead. It's the perfect way to liven up your look without going overboard.

For other autumnal colors like dark greens and purples, the rules are the same. Wear them sparingly, and make sure you get creative by adding some patterns, such as stripes and checks, or textures like wool and corduroy.

Choosing an outfit for an October wedding is not rocket science. The key is to make sure your clothes are warm enough for the chilly weather but not so bold that you overshadow the bride or take away from all of those gorgeous autumn colors around every corner. 

Below are some options you can consider. 


Formal Attire

formal wedding attire black suit and bowtie

If you've been invited to a formal wedding this fall, then don't worry - the dress code is not as strict as it is during the summer. If anything, some rules are more relaxed during this time of year so you can have fun with your outfit.

For example, tuxedos are always acceptable at formal weddings. Still, they are now accompanied by the option to wear dark brown or navy blazers-with dress pants- instead of traditional black tuxedo jackets. This is an excellent way to embrace fall colors without completely standing out. Even if you aren't wearing something as bold as cobalt blue or burgundy, you can still be stylish.

For those of you who want to wear a suit but aren't sure if it's appropriate for a wedding, there is some room for creativity here as well. By adding a checked pattern to your jacket or swapping out the dress shirt underneath, you have the option of going from conservative to chic without having to sacrifice your style.


Casual Attire

If you're going to a casual wedding, then there's no need to worry about looking too dressy or overdressed. The best thing you can do is embrace your style and not worry about following specific rules.

For example, jeans may be too informal, so that you can choose a nice pair of deep-indigo chinos instead. If you're going to wear a button-down shirt but don't think they're appropriate at any wedding or formal event, consider wearing a plaid one with the sleeves rolled up - you'll look far from sloppy, and it will still keep you cozy during the cooler months.

And, of course, you can't go wrong with adding a patterned scarf or funky hat to your outfit - it's an easy way to put together a unique look without having to overthink things. No matter what you choose to wear, remember that it's more critical for you to have fun with your style than it is to worry about following some hard-and-fast rules on what you can or cannot wear.


Cocktail Attire

When it comes to cocktail attire, there are a few things you should keep in mind: the weather, the time of day, and the event's formality. Is it getting colder? Will the wedding be during the day or at night? And what's the wedding dress code? 

First, it's essential to be aware of what time your cocktail attire wedding is taking place. If you're invited to an evening cocktail party, then wear something nice but not too fancy. You'll want to stick with darker colors like navy or deep brown. Make sure you plan for any chilly weather that might go along with the season.

If you're going to a daytime wedding, feel free to add some color and patterns to your outfit. However, try and stick with paler tones like grey or beige because darker colors will make you look too formal for such a relaxed event - this is especially important if it's an outdoor wedding.

And last but not least, if you're going to a cocktail party during the fall or winter, then you want to make sure you don't wear something too light. While a weightier blazer is always acceptable, wearing a coat that's too thin can look out of place even at a less formal autumn wedding. Save your leather jacket for another occasion.



Once you've chosen your suit and tie, consider adding a splash of color to accent them with your accessories. For example, if you're wearing a navy suit and light blue tie, opt for a coral pocket square or socks. You could also try adding a patterned scarf or hat to play off the fall theme.


What about Colors?

You should consider wearing darker colors like deep brown or navy at an evening fall wedding, although lighter colors are acceptable for daytime events. However, if the event is formal, then stick to darker tones.

Wear rich jewel tone fabrics like ruby red or emerald green for your accessories to pull your outfit together.


Fall Wedding Suit colors

The key to choosing the best color for your suit is matching it with the time of day when the wedding will be happening. If you are attending an evening fall wedding, stick with darker colors like navy or grey.

Shades of brown are also appropriate, but make sure you choose a richer tone rather than something lighter. For daytime suits, you can go for brighter colors like burgundy or forest green.

When it comes to a fall wedding, the sky's the limit as far as what you can wear, so have fun with it. But always keep in mind the time of day and the event's formality. If you plan and think about these two things, you'll be able to choose an outfit that matches the occasion perfectly.


No Dress Code? Here are Your Options

If you're attending a wedding that doesn't have a specific dress code, you should follow several guidelines. Generally speaking, it's safest to wear a dark suit which you can either dress up or down depending on the time of day and event details.

You should also consider which color would match up best with your attire. For example, you might want to go for a navy or grey suit if you're attending an evening wedding. On the other hand, daytime events are well suited for more casual attires like khakis, and a blazer would work. If you're wearing a light-colored suit, opt for neutral colors like grey or tan to avoid clashing.


Dress for the Weather

October is the month of fall, which brings cooler temperatures and unpredictable weather. You should dress according to the event details, but also consider your location. 

If it's an outdoor wedding, make sure you dress accordingly -wear layers like sweaters or vests if it's colder, and bring along a light jacket in case the sun comes out.


What Should the Male Wedding Party Wear to an October Wedding?

Finding an attire for an October wedding as the groom may be even more challenging. You also have to figure out what your groomsmen will wear. The only difference between the options for the wedding party and guests is what suit they should wear to your wedding. 

If it's a formal, traditional wedding ceremony, the groom and groomsmen can wear morning suits or tuxedos, but dark suits will probably do if it's an informal event.

The groom could match his groomsmen by wearing a morning suit or tuxedo for formal weddings. However, he could bend the rules and blend in with a dark suit for a traditional wedding. So, what should the male members of the wedding party wear to an October wedding? 


The Best Man

best man black white wedding attire


The best man probably has a little more room to play with their attire. They'll most likely be standing close to the groom and groomsmen, so they can dress a bit differently from the others without going too far off course. Make sure you're all still on the same page.

For example, if everyone else is wearing a dark suit, the best man can wear a patterned one without standing out negatively. Another good option for the best man in a casual wedding is to go with something more casual like jeans and a blazer - this way, they won't look too stuffy next to everyone else.

If the other groomsmen are going with traditional suits, the best man can wear a more contemporary outfit like black jeans and a white dress shirt with a tailored blazer. Just make sure the colors aren't too light as this will look too informal for an evening wedding.



If you are the groom, you should also ensure your groomsmen pay attention to the time of day your wedding is taking place. Ensure they have dressed appropriately according to your wedding's dress code and time of day. 

Darker suits in navy, black, or grey will work well for nighttime weddings. On the other hand, patterned and light-colored suits will be more suitable for daytime ceremonies. 

As the groom, you can pair your groomsmen's outfits to your own, so you have a complementary look. Make sure everyone is wearing a shirt that matches their ties. You can also bring swatches of fabric if necessary.


Grooms/Bridegrooms Father

Generally speaking, the groom's father should have an outfit that's a bit more conservative than the groom's. For a casual wedding, the senior man could opt for a blazer and dress pants. The groom could then go for a dressier ensemble in a traditional dark color like navy or grey.

You can also follow any guidelines your son has given you about his wedding. But be careful to avoid being too casual or outshining the groom.

If your son is wearing a traditional suit and he wants you to wear one as well, then go for something in a lighter color like tan or cream - dark colors will make you look too formal (which isn't necessarily bad but should only be used as a last resort).



Well, there you have it- the basics of what to wear to an October wedding. As with all clothing advice, make sure you keep your style in mind when choosing what to wear for the occasion. But before you make a decision, be sure to check with the bride and groom about what they expect for this special event. 

If you're still unsure or don't want to put too much effort into your look, then wear a dark suit that's appropriate for the time of day and go from there.